How to push away someone you love

As much as love is good there are times when we just push the ones we love away. How we do it could be many different reasons. In this article we shall look at three different ways on how you push away someone you love. It is not that you do it on purpose but sometimes it just happens and you are not even aware of it.

1.Moody

We are all entitled to having a bad day once in a while, but when that bad day becomes the nature of one’s character it becomes a drag to stay close to that person. Love is good and is associated with happiness and occasional smiles.When that goes and all that is left is sadness and a moody character it becomes difficult to stay close to that person. We all want to be happy. It takes a lot of effort to sulk the whole day without a smile. Smiling and happiness releases an ever needed relief. So when a person is moody all the time it is a sure way to push away someone they love.

2. Secrecy

There is absolutely nothing wrong in having secrets, but when a secret affects the relationship then that secret should not be a secret. When a secret is affecting a relationship but that secret is not said, it kills the trust slowly and surely. We all want to feel trusted by the one’s we love. If that does not happen we tend to look for trust somewhere else. Secrets that affect a relationship have a few common characteristics

The person with the secret acts differently
The person who does not know the secret feels treated differently
The secret hangs over everyone
When the secret comes out and it is shown that all the things that affected the relationship in a bad way were because of that secret then trust goes out the window