If you are going to succeed in life then you need to have attitude. Attitude can be the bridge between success and failure. There are several attitudes that one can have but we have picked 7 that we believe an make a difference in your life.
1. Confidence
We could have picked out optimism, determination or any other hopeful outlook on life but we settled for confidence. You need confidence in order to be able to start and make things work. You might get the solutions or have the money but if you do not have the confidence you might never do anything that is worth mentioning. So in our list we put confidence as the first attitude of success because it points to self. In the absence of self there is no attitude. Confident is about you believing in yourself such that you are able to face what you might be afraid of. Confidence helps you to be more calculative in achieving what you need
2. Decisive
Life is about decisions, everything that you do is a decision that you make consciously or subconsciously. So it helps to ensure that you are decisive because you will need it for success. Success is a decision made but supported by the attainment of an object. Without the decision the attainment of the object might never happen. If you want to be successful then you need to learn to be decisive. The reason why we fail is because we made the wrong decisions, were late in making the decisions or simply never decided.
3. Calculative
Whether you accept this as an attitude or not, you need to be calculative. You see the universe is mathematical in nature, everything happens as a specific result of something else or is related to another thing. What it means is that everything has a formula, not knowing the formula does not mean it does not exist it just means we are ignorant to it. Learn to calculate your actions and the outcomes that you require. Success is simply the sum or the addition of things in a specific order. Until you are calculative, success might be a myth based on luck and chance. There is no such thing as luck but in the order of ignorance then luck will make sense. Within the science of being calculative is the art of being creative.
4. Humility
As much as being aggressive make sense to most people, being humble requires more skill. It is easy to want things and demand survival but it is harder to place yourself below other people or situation. Humility is the art of using patience to attain your turn. In the goodness of all things, you will get to where you believe you should be.
5. Generous
You cant succeed unless if you give. Investment is the art of sacrifice. Until you are willing to give then you might never receive a just reward or reap the right harvest. You must learn to be generous. Find things that you can give and give. If you are always waiting for a savior to come and help you out you might just never succeed. Take time to give.
6. Cheerful
Real joy comes from within not from others. Yes, people can make you happy but its not people that will drag you out of a depression, it is your decision to be cheerful. People can convince you to be happy but until you decide to be happy you will always be at the mercy of what people do to you. Success is really about happiness, if you don’t practice it now, then you might never achieve it.Be cheerful so that you can be more open minded and better motivated. The more cheerful you are, the more motivation will be acceptable to you.
7. Practical
Imagination is done in the calculative attitude and so is creativity. however after all is said and done, how practical you are will determine what is there to speak of when you speak of success. You are not judged by your invisible thinking but more by the results of your thinking which are the actions that you do. Many people are great and have amazing imaginations but only the practical are recorded as geniuses. Mandela was great, so was Martin Luther, Washington, and more people who were called great because they did soothing. Mother Theresa was great, Florence Nightingale, and any other we can think of did not just dream but they imagined and implemented.
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